The 10 Best Metal & Steel Dildos – Complete Guide

Why use a metal dildo? Are they any better than a standard sex toy? 

I’ve opened with this question because it’s the one I immediately had when first encountering the wonderful world of metallic dildos. Okay, sure, they look cool, but do they actually make any difference to their more-than-likely silicone counterparts? 

Well, the quick answer is yes. The material, weight, and actual recommended usage or ‘type’ of toy is completely different  and it’s a whole new experience when compared to your standard sex store dildo. 

The main reasons that their arguably better than standard dildos is down to: 

  • Weight – Overall they’re going to be heavier than a usual dildo based purely on the material that they’re crafted from. This means that you can firmly grip the toy, have more fun with pushing and pulling the toy once inside due to the added weight challenge (sort of like when playing with Ben Wa balls) and have a firmer, sturdier toy to squat on when you’re up for a challenge.


  • Material – You’ll commonly see metal and steel as the primary material types, and they’re incredibly based on how durable they and how easy they are to clean.


  •  Common metal dildo types – By this I mean that it’s not just your standard cock shape when browsing through these types of toys. Even just looking at this guide you can see wands, unique vibrator shapes and loads more. 


  • Precision – With the wands in particular, you’re looking at toys that are specifically crafted to target your G-spot. This means that there’s no more fumbling around once inside…a metal wand gets straight to the point! 


  • Temperate Play – The beauty of metal or steel is that it offers temperature play to a custom degree of what you want to be most comfortable. For example, if you like playing with colder toys, then chilling the dildo will mean that it then retains the cold for the duration of your session. The same goes with steadily heating the toy too (just don’t shove it in the oven). 


There’s is so much to cover in this guide about metal dildos, so let’s jump straight into it! 

Best For Beginners

njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

Best Challenge

ElectraStim Bi-Polar Electrosex Wave Metal Dildo 7 Inch

Best Overall

njoy Fun Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

My Ten Favourite Metal & Steel Dildos

Get your magic wand at the ready and make your G-spot or P-spot go into a spellbinding whirlwind! Get into metal dildo play and bow down to the pleasure of warm or cool temperature experimentation.

With two different sized tips, one sized at 3.5 inches and the other one at 4.15 inches and a swirl design around the rim, it will give you a pinpointed orgasm and make you and your partner Leviosa into another world of gratification!

Get your nurse and doctor roleplay on with this medical 316-grade stainless steel dildo! Curved to perfection, this polished, non-porous steel dildo will reach your G-spot or P-spot with medical-grade precision, making mind bowing pleasure easier for you and your partner to experience together.

With a 3 inch ball on one end and a 5.5-inch ball on the other end, you can use this dildo for fun temperature play or even as a massager for some sensual play.

Give a slamdunk orgasmic experience with this hoop double ended stainless steel dildo! We cross our hearts and hoops to die that this dildo will give you a ballin’ time! With two different sized balls to massage in precisely the right spot, you will be thrown for a hoop.

Temperature play, whether you are into warm or cold, can be used on this top quality stainless steel dildo as well as being curved in precisely the right way to give you gratifying orgasms both for your G and P-spot.

All you bead is love. So get in that love spirit with this luxury beaded stainless steel dildo! This Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo is weighted to perfection to give just the right amount of pressure exactly where you want to provide you with a breathtaking orgasm. The curved beads will smoothly glide inside you, giving you intense internal pleasure!

This 8 inches of beaded glory can be used for anal play, but make sure to use the thinner end so that you don’t hurt yourself and always make sure to use plenty of lube! Whether you want to hit that G-spot or P-spot, this beaded dream will find it!

This sensually, sexy, smooth S-shaped steel dildo will make you arch and curl with simply steamy sensations! Double-ended with gradually enlarging beads, this dildo gives you and your partner the option for anal or vaginal sex, with the increased pressure and pleasure you are screaming out for.

Lightweight, hand-polished and non-porous, this dildo is everything you are looking for in a metal dildo and is perfect for temperature play and would make oral play even more exciting.

With this electrosex wave metal dildo, you will need a big sign saying “Slippery When Watt” because with these electrodes, you will be sparking with joy in all of the right places, making you want to get your shocks off! With several patterns and vibrations available, you will be guaranteed a climax charged experience.

Whether you want to use this dildo with the electrosex option to give you that needed spark in your sex life or you just want a slender, polished, and crafted to perfection metal dildo to add to your toy box, then this toy covers both and will give you a mind-blowing time, every time.

You deserve the most luxury, divine, desire filled steel dildo of your dreams, and here it is! This seven inch, medical-grade metal toy is curved to reach your G-spot with expert precision giving you the O of your dreams!

With the double-ended design, you can choose whether you would like a more intense pressure all around or a more pinpointed and distinct pleasure that will help give you the stimulation you are looking for. So spoil yourself and get yourself a lavish sexy gift for yourself or your lover!

Completely lose your handle with this metal beaded stick! With five tiny beads on one end of this dildo, it can be a great anal play trainer for any beginners, or it can create a rippled effect of pleasure for all of your holes! On the other side, you can use the larger ball to enjoy some vaginal play or careful and gentle anal play.

Enjoy 6.5 inches of beaded pleasure, whether alone with some spiced up masturbation play or making your fantasies come to life with your lover. This beaded handle will give you the intense orgasm you crave.

Bigger is always better, and if you are looking to put an enormous grin on your lover’s face, then this eleven stainless steel dildo is for you and your lover! With voluptuous, smooth bulbs on each end, you can enjoy every sensation with pinpointed pressure wherever you want it. Use the larger one to give an all-around intense wave of delight or the smaller end to get precisely to that G or P-spot.

With eleven inches of pure pleasure, you are sure to be moaning and groaning with delight. To make it even better, you can spice things up with temperature play; warming or cooling this dildo will give you increased sensations.

Be spellbound with this magical fun wand to have a magical sexual experience with yourself or your lover! You will be blamed for witchcraft as you cast your wand to rub inside your lover with either the three different sized shafts or the one bigger shaft at the other end.

This toy is made from top quality stainless steel and highly polished to perfection, and this toy is great for anal or vaginal play. You can have an even more magical experience by either warming or cooling this dildo to great intense temperature play, giving you pleasure to remember.

How to Use Metal Dildos – Guide for beginners 

Metal dildos can be used in many different ways, as you can see from above. You can have fun either just with the dildo in the ‘traditional way’, or you have increased sized beads to enjoy more intense pleasure, or you can try temperature play which can give your sex life that added sense of fun!

If you are going to experiment with temperature play, just be careful not to freeze the toy as it can cause damage to the toy or you. Also, cleaning and storing these toys are just as crucial to keeping these metal dildos of top quality.



Prices vary, and metal dildos come a little pricer than other dildos, but this is because they are crafted from pure stainless steel and polished to a gleaming mirror quality.

For example, the electrosex wave metal dildo is priced at $166.99. Which is expensive, but you get electric vibrations, top-quality stainless steel, and durability for long-term use.



When cleaning your metal dildos, be sure not to use anything abrasive to clean them. Using these materials can damage your toy and dull the beautiful shine that these stainless steel toys are created with. 

Cleaning your sex toys is extremely important; making sure that you wash them before and after use is also critical, and the general rule is if it goes inside you, clean it. It’s common sense, really, but just don’t get lazy with it and make sure to put as much effort into cleaning your toys as you would yourself.

Cleaning products you could use include:

  • Alcoholic wipes,
  • Sanitising tablets,
  • Good old, warm freshwater.



Storing your sex toys is just as important as cleaning your sex toys. Many sex toys come in boxes that you can use for storage, but make sure it’s clean and put them in a box but as well as a bag, just to keep any dust or debris off the toys themselves.

Also, ensure that they are adequately dried; otherwise, the toys can start to deteriorate.


Recommended For

These metal dildos are perfect for anyone looking for a toy that will last them a long time and deliver pleasure every time.

Whether you are a couple, part of the LGBTQ+, a dildo expert or a beginner, these dildos are perfect for you and guarantee to give you the time of your life. 

Ally says this about the Desire Luxury Beaded Dildo “A play partner used this on me recently while I was tied up as a “punishment” and my god, I was not expecting to like this as much!

He did not warm it up and inserted the freezing cold dildo inside of my vagina. The temperature, weight and the feeling of each bulb inside of me made me orgasm hard.”

As far as a recommendation, it doesn’t get much better than that! Hopefully, this guide has given you an insight into the appeal of metal dildos, the different types and materials within this sib-section of sex toy, and also how you can maintain and look after your toy once you’ve got your hands on a steel-length. 

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