The Best Sex Toys For Lesbian Couples

Are there sex toys specifically made for lesbian couples?

Of course! With certain sex acts like scissoring related to lesbian intercourse, there are naturally going to be introductions of same-sex specific sex toys, and you will be suprised by the sheer scale and quality available.

Choosing the right lesbian sex toy for you

Whether you’re looking for a toy that vibrates, pulsates, stimulates, one used for oral pleasure or to accurately provide penetration, there are a plethora of toys and a whole world out there for you to explore. 

Whilst you can use these toys on your own, they are more suited specifically for bi sexual and queer couples looking to take experimenting to the next level. 

Vaginal intercourse both alone and as a couple never felt so good! Here are some of the best sex toys for lesbian couples to try (tried, tested and pleasure-inducingly approved).

Best For Beginners

Yumi Rechargeable Finger Vibe

Best Challenge

Shilo Strap-On Dildo and Packer

Best Overall

RockHer Mini Scissoring Vibrator

The RockHer mini scissoring vibrator has a versatile and unique design, meaning that it allows couples to try in a variety of positions. From g-spot stimulation to a flexible vibrating ring, it can be a perfect choice for placing between both vulvas when scissoring, to give the same experience to both partners. Not only that, but it can be worn in reverse, which brings a whole new dimension of fun to the bedroom, and can be used in a range of sexual positions, not just scissoring, from missionary, reverse cowgirl, and cowgirl. The vibrator has a powerful motor that can be felt easily, and with different speed levels, you can find the one that fits you both perfectly.


  • Splash proof, meaning that it can be used in the shower
  • Rechargeable and will run for one hour, when fully charged
  • Flexible and versatile, made from high quality silicone


  • Cannot be used when charging
  • No internal stimulation

The Union is a double-ended vibrator that helps to bring double the pleasure for you as a couple. The dildo itself is really soft and can be shaped according to needs, whether you use it with two partners, or with two holes. The main idea behind it is that one partner places the bulb end inside, and the longer side can be used by a partner (or yourself). As a result, it can be used in a range of positions, as well as in a harness, ready for pleasure. The design is flexible and with copper wire inside the silicone of the dildo, it can be shaped as you would like; there are endless possibilities with this. There are different speeds to choose from, and there is a small rechargeable bullet that comes when you purchase this, helping to add in a whole other dimension of fun and pleasure.


  • Made from 100% medical grade silicone
  • The bulb has been designed with every woman’s body in mind
  • Variety of speeds to choose from


  • Needs plenty of lubrication
  • Bulky and large in size – which can be a good too

Say hello to your new little best friend! The Shagger dildo is soft and sensual, with tips designed for pleasure as they can bend flexibly when in use. The base of the Shagger dildo can be used for teasing and general foreplay, using together or with one partner using on the other. The Shagger fits well over the base of the majority of dildos (that measure up to 3.2 inches in width), so it means that there can be penetration for one partner, and clit stimulation for the other, though it can be used in a variety of ways. This dildo can also be used with harnesses, so can float the boat of every queer couple and help those that like external stimulation, as well as internal when used with other toys.


  • Soft to touch and easy to clean
  • Adaptable and versatile, making it a good choice for a variety of sex play
  • Hypoallergenic and safe


  • Can’t be used with dildos that are larger than 3.2 inches in width which could be a problem if you already have larger dildos

For lesbian couples that want penetrative sex, then look no further than the Wave strap-on dildo, to ride the waves all the way to o-town. It is body safe and hypoallergenic, built with women in mind to fit all the curves of a vagina. The dildo can be used with a harness, so it can be used hands-free if required. It does also feature a suction cup so can be used in a number of ways, with a partner or alone. The dildo is made from silicone, making it flexible yet firm, and smooth to ride. It can also be used alongside other sex toys, such as a clit stimulator or a dildo base, for extra pleasure for both partners, including the harness wearer.


  • Versatile and can be used in a number of ways
  • Compatible with other sex toys and harnesses
  • Soft silicone
  • Suction cup base


  • Unique shape that beginners may be used to
  • On the smaller size when it comes to dildos

If you are looking for a must-have sexual accessory for lesbian couples, then this is for you. The WowHer™ has been designed to do just as the name suggests, and with it’s clever design, it fits over dildos (up to 2.4 inches in width), and provides clit stimulation, as well as penetration (when used with a dildo). It could be used as just a clit stimulator by itself, as it does slide onto a couple of fingers well, but works best when plugged onto a dildo for double the pleasure. The vibrator is small, but still works very powerfully. In fact, as it is so powerful, it may not be to everyone’s desire. If this is the case, it is best to use by itself, rather than with a dildo, or the full feeling may be too much. There are five vibration modes to choose from, and it is rechargeable using a USB. The vibrator lasts for around one hour when fully charged, giving you plenty of time to use it and take turns.


  • Fits on 2-3 fingers, so can be used in a variety of ways
  • A bullet vibrator is included
  • Splash proof and easy to clean
  • Available in three different colors
  • Easy access button making it easy to switch between settings


  • Can not be used when charging
  • Very powerful, so some settings could be too much for some women, especially if used alongside a dildo

The Yumi rechargeable finger vibe is small but perfectly formed, with ten very powerful vibration modes to choose from. Although powerful, it is quiet to use, making it a covert option if you live with other people or want some quick solo action. The design of the virbator meand that it is effortless to use and control, and it can fit in easily between middle fingers and index finger; perfect for pleasuring your partner’s clit, as well as your own. There is a smooth and silky tip on the Yumi, that means you can target specific pleasurable areas, like nipples and the clit. The Yumi is completely waterproof, so it can be used in the bath or shower, and being small in size, it is cute but super discreet, which can be a good choice for beginners or sex toy first-timers. It can feel quite intense, so some practice, and plenty of lube, is a must.


  • Velvety smooth and easy to use
  • Ten powerful vibration modes to choose from
  • Quiet but powerful


  • Intense vibes
  • Power doesn’t last for very long when in use

The rainbow strap-on dildo not only looks good with rainbow pride, but it is compatible with the majority of o-ring harnesses that you can get (or may already own). If you are using this alongside a bullet vibrator and a harness, then there is an amazing sensation from the vibrations which can be felt for the partner wearing the harness, as well as the partner receiving. The dildo is made from a soft and silky silicone material, which helps when it comes to feeling the vibes and the pulses. If you are looking for extra stimulation, then you could use add-ons like a clit stimulator or use alongside a dildo end for more comfort and pleasure. Plenty of water-based lubrication is needed to make sure that you can get maximum pleasure from it.


  • Available in three different sizes
  • Harness compatible
  • Body safe silicone, ensuring flexibility and smoothness


  • Best used alongside other sex toys and accessories, rather than as a stand-alone product

If you are looking for an American-made brand, then the Shilo dildo is a great choice. It is best used for penetration, and due to the soft silicone and a memory core inside, it can bend in desired positions and then stays in position, ideal for when things are getting heated! It is quite a compact size, making it a good option as a packer. It is still a good size, but generally not as large as a regular dildo. It is a realistic shape and size, with a head designed just like the head of a penis. The Shilo is also compatible with harnesses, and can also be used safely for anal play. Being slightly smaller in size than a regular dildo, it can be a good choice for that.


  • Available in four skin tones, as well as turquoise
  • Realistic texture
  • Smooth and silky, easy to clean


  • Although smaller than a regular dildo, it could be too large of a bulge for some when used as a packer

The Vitality Vibrator bullet kit is super powerful and super versatile, for all sexual needs and requirements. The kit itself comes in three different colorful, soft, and unique shaped tips, that can all be placed exactly where you want the vibrations to be. With the different shaped heads, you can get a different experience and feeling each time, as they are all good for different things. The bullet kit packs a powerful punch, with ten vibration settings to choose from. The kit also comes with a wireless remote that has different settings and buttons that allows you to change speeds and patterns without needing to go through all ten settings to get to where you want to. When you’re under the sheets you can get busy with just the click of the remote.


  • Waterproof, meaning that it can be used in the bath or shower
  • Silky smooth feeling
  • Rechargeable with a USB
  • Completely body safe and made from 100% silicone


  • No hands-free option
  • Cannot be used when charging

Known as a fusion dildo, this dildo is best used for all kinds of strap-on fun and play. Designed by women, for women, it has a smooth and ergonomic design, including a base that means that the wearer of the dildo gets some pleasure at the same time as the receiver. The wearer will get some clit stimulation, so it is a great choice for couples. It doesn’t have a realistic design, which could appeal for a number of reasons, but is made with complete medical-grade silicone that is silky and soft to the touch. It is a body safe dildo, for great peace of mind. You can use it in a harness, alongside something like a bullet vibrator for the ultimate in stimulation for both partners involved. When used in this way, the vibrations can be felt right from the base to the tip, all through the shaft of the dildo. It really takes things to the next level, making it an amazing choice when you want to climax at the same time as each other.


  • Compatible with other products, helping to increase the pleasure that you can get as a result
  • Made from silicone, it is soft and durable, and completely safe
  • Available in three sizes; small, medium, and large


  • Best when combined with other sex toys or accessories, so costs could add up if you don’t already have any compatible sex toys

Sex Toy Buying Guide for Lesbian Couples


With the majority of toys in this list and in this sector in general providing a very specific form of stimulation via a specific method, there are certain things you need to know if you’re searching for a sex toy to use with your partner. 

My first experiences with same-sex toys were a bit of a trial and error, so the below information are the types of things I wish I had known in in terms of the types and what I should’ve been looking for. 


Common types of toys 

Whilst there are lots of toys that lesbian and gay couples can use, the most common female-specific simulators are:

  • Vibrators
  • Clit Stimulators
  • Scissoring Toys
  • Strap-Ons
  • Bullets

Popular Brands & Sellers 

Like with any sex toy, I would highly recommend that you stick to the brands recommended by reputable websites such as ‘Wet For Her’, ‘Love Honey’ and ‘Ann Summers’. You’ll see these mentioned throughout our site and it’s because our authors, myself included, only recommend reputable websites that we have worked with and tested toys personally. 

Whilst yes, you can opt for Amazon and more generic e-commerce sites, you have to be extra-sure that you do your research and buy from a reputable seller. 


Commonly you will find the vast majority of lesbian sex toys are made from some form of silicon material, ensuring that it is compatible with water and other, well…. liquids!

The reason I have recommended Wet For Her as a majority of products in this guide is because you’ll also get a warranty as standard with a lot of their products, so not only are they premium but you get that added guarantee as well in the unlikely event that there’s an issue. 

Specific advice for beginners and first-time buyers 

My advice for anyone buying a toy is to do your research into the materials and brand quality, so ensuring that you’re not buying a toy that includes a material that you may be allergic to. 

As this is a guide specific to lesbian couples, my main parting advice is to have an open discussion around what you want to get out of a couples toy. Do you want equal pleasure in the form of a vibrator or scissoring toy? Would you rather one partner provides while the other stimulates, such as a strap-on toy or smaller vibrator bullet? 

Don’t regret your purchase because it’s not what you want, this is all about your sexual revolution as a couple so be as honest and open as you can, and reap those pleasurable rewards with a toy that will leave a smlle on more than one of your faces! 


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