Should your bedroom have a pair of handcuffs in it?
Well, I’m a self-confessed lover of all things bondage, so my immediate answer is always going to be a firm yes. But let’s explore this further, and I’ll be as objective as possible…
Handcuffs are perfect for beginners who want to experiment with light bondage, whilst also remaining comfortable and using bondage equipment with minimum setup. If you’ve seen some of the bondage furniture out there, you’ll know what I mean when I say some equipment really does need its own room in your house…
From fluffy handcuffs to leather wrist restraints, there are cheap and expensive ways to go about buying the best type of handcuffs for use in the bedroom. I’ve included handcuffs in this guide that are both low cost and high quality, so you don’t have to worry if it’s your first time shopping for this bedroom necessity.
There’s also a guide at the end for beginners on cleaning, maintaining and (safely) using your new bedroom dwellers. Let’s get into it.
My Ten Favourite Handcuffs For Bedroom Bondage
If there were a crime for sexiness, these handcuffs would be under arrest! The faux fur covering the wrist restraints gives you and your lover not just a little something to spice up your night but also comfort whilst being restrained.
The handcuffs come with two keys and an easy release system so that everyone has the peace of mind that no one will be stuck to a bed anytime soon! Have criminally amazing sex with sinfully good bondage.
Want to get into BDSM but not sure how to start? This kit is for you! With two pieces consisting of a sexy blindfold and some kinky cuffs, you will be all set to start up your very own dungeon. The eye mask is designed to completely blackout the wearer’s vision, so great for teasing and anticipation play.
The cuffs are lined with faux fur and have a velcro fasten and quick release clip; all these things gives the wearer the restraint they are looking for, plus comfort at the same time.
Red is the colour of love and passion, and these cuffs are that and much more! If you are a beginner in the whole BDSM world, these cuffs are a great starting point, with the soft red faux fur to keep your wearer happy but also with the adjustable restraint to fasten them to anything and anywhere.
For those looking to spice things up in the bedroom even more, you can remove the fur. This means if you want more of a hardcore experience, you can take them off and turn it up a notch. These cuffs come with two separate keys and easy release systems, so you and your lover are kept safe at all times.
Is your sub being disobedient? Grab these leather cuffs and show them who is in charge. The padded restraints give your sub just enough comfort for long periods of play or punishment, and with nine buckle holes, these cuffs can restrain anyone of any size.
With D rings attaching the cuffs together, you can decide where or how your sub is restrained, or you can loop through other restraints to get them all tied up in knots.
So you want a kinky quickie, and you don’t have time for buckles and clips? These silicone restraints will be perfect! Just a slip-on, slip-off design, you can quickly tie your lover against anything and have your way with them, no matter where you are.
These restraints are airport safe too, so if you want to join the mile high club on a whole new kinky level or want to spice up your hotel bedroom, then these cuffs are for you! The silicone cuffs are also great for beginners who may be slightly intimidated by the more hardcore looking options as they do the job and keep everyone involved safe and comfortable.
Contain the roar of your sub with these leopard print cuffs. Have them purr for more as you tie them up and have your way with them. They even have soft padding to keep your sub or lover happy for long periods after being restrained.
These cuffs are not only stylish but they can also be turned into a hardcore bondage cuff with the D-rings available so you can add other restraints and bondage to really take control of your wild animal!
For our more experienced BDSM lovers, this set will really allow you to take control of your sub and give them the pleasure or punishment that they deserve. The set comes with a neck collar and wrist restraints that can all be attached via D-rings or to other restraints in your bedroom that you may have, like ropes or ceiling or wall restraints.
The collar is also great for our puppy play fans who want to give their pet a brand new collar for being a good boy or girl and has plenty of places to attach a leash and take complete control of them.
It’s bondage but chic, these lacy collar and cuffs add a touch of elegance to your bondage play, and the rose gold chains give the wearer a very sexy, sultry look as you lay them down and take control.
With the chains being detachable, you can just add this collar or wrist cuffs to your lingerie to add a little gothic flair to your outfit. This is great for beginners into bondage or just adding a bit of spice to your sex life.
If you want to get into rope play but haven’t quite got the hang of doing the knots yet, no need to worry! This hogtie cuff is perfect for BDSM beginners as you can quickly restrain your sub with ropes without the hassle of doing all the knots yourself, as these are pre-done and look elegant too!
Whether you want to restrain wrists or ankles, these cuffs can do both. Putting these along with your other bondage gear will really give you and your sub a punishingly great time.
Who doesn’t want to be restrained to a bed by Christian Grey? Well, now you can or at least the closest you’re going to get! You. Are. Mine. Handcuffs are perfect for couples who are looking to spice up their bedroom. Whether as a playful punishment or to kink up your passionate sex life, these cuffs are for you!
Made from top quality metal with an elegant metal chain connecting the two together, it gives you both the handcuff fantasy you both crave.
How do you use handcuffs in the bedroom?
Handcuffs are a great stepping stone or add on to your BDSM bedroom but don’t get it twisted; these handcuffs are for playful use only! With easy release designs and adjustable hooks or straps, these handcuffs are designed to look like the real deal but are equipped to keep you and your wearer ultimately safe at all times.
Handcuffs are a great way to spice up your bedroom, but remember when you use them to make sure you have complete trust and consent from your lover to use them or have a safe word in place to stop the fantasy at any time point.
Prices
Prices vary depending on what you are getting and the quality of the product. For example, a simple handcuff alone can range from $12.99 to $14.99, but then you add in other restraints like the collar, and prices can change to $59.99.
It all depends on what is included, and you have to remember the more you pay, the better the longevity of that product will be, along with the proper cleaning and storage.
Cleaning
With handcuffs, cleaning is pretty straightforward. Please don’t use any harsh chemicals to clean them as it can lead them to rust or break apart. But make sure to clean them with warm soapy water or sanitiser to sanitise them for the next use thoroughly.
For the leather or faux fur materials, you can wash them the same way. Still, some can even be machine washable, so definitely read the instruction and see if that’s possible for complete sanitisation.
Storage
Storing your handcuffs is just as important as cleaning your handcuffs. Many handcuffs come in boxes that you can use for storage, but make sure it’s clean and put them not just in a box but also a bag, just to keep any dust or debris off the toys themselves. Also, ensure that they are adequately dried; otherwise, they can start to deteriorate.
Recommended For
Handcuffs can be for anyone looking to get into BDSM, is a BDSM pro, or maybe you are a couple looking for something to spice up your sex life. Handcuffs are for any of you, and as long as you make sure to stay safe and use them correctly, you will have a wickedly good time!
KJ333 said this about the Lovehoney Black Furry Handcuffs “I bought these a while back but never got the chance to use them. My significant other and I just used them last week for the first time, and we loved them! The fur was nice and helped keep the metal from being too rough, and we will definitely be using these again!”
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