Is a prostate massager actually worth buying?
Once you’ve used one you’ll be wondering why you ever asked the question… honestly, massagers are an incredible sex toy that combines the best aspects of large butt plugs, anal beads and beginners dildos, all into one compact and orgasm-inducing toy.
From sites like Lovehoney you’ll also find things like beginners kits and combination massagers with things like cock rings, so that you can treat them in the same way as a butt plug by keeping them in for extended periods of time (as long as you feel safe to do so).
I suppose this introduction is a very passionate and long-winded way of saying yes, prostate massagers are definitely worth the investment!
How does a prostate massager work?
It’s essentially a very specifically crafted anal plug, in that it’s shaped similarly and also offers anal stimulation. The toy is curved to address the slight ‘bend’ once inside the anus in order to actually get to the prostate.
If you’ve ever had your prostate examined you’ll know that there’s a very noticeable ‘bend’ when the finger is near its end destination…so that’s why these massagers kind of look like a melted butt plug.
The toy uses the momentum of you inserting it and the downward momentum of you sitting on it to stimulate the prostate. With options like vibrating massagers and cock ring incarnations, you can insert and have constant pleasure until you can’t take it any longer.
Are they good toys for beginners?
Absolutely! They do look a little daunting, but check out my guide to stretching your anus if you’re worried about playing with anal toys for the first time.
Additionally, these toys are one of the best ways to experience a hands-free orgasm from prostate stimulation…. yep, you heard me right!
Can they only be used by men? Can women use a prostate massager too?
Whilst the specific shape of the massager is a little different to a butt plug, they absolutely can still be used by women or anyone without a prostate – however just bear in mind that whilst you’ll still get the ‘stretch’ and the pleasure like from any anal toy, that these have been specifically designed to provide prostate pleasure due to the curve and shape.
My Ten Favourite Prostate Massagers
You’ve heard of nerves of steel, but have you heard of a bumhole full of steel? Well, you have now! With butt-fully crafted smooth, stainless steel, this prostate finding dildo is something to dream about. Curved to find the exact spot to get you all hot under the collar, this wand is pure magic.
What makes it even better is that you can use it warm or cool depending on what kind of pleasure you are looking for. With nine inches of length, you or your lover are guaranteed a good time!
You don’t just want an average P-gasm; you want an Aneros Progasm. This prostate massager is revolutionary, and once you get this, you will never go back! Talking about backs, this prostate massager doesn’t just accurately pinpoint your p-spot. It also has two tabs on either end, one of which goes on an acupressure point just below the sacrum, sending joyful tingles up and down your spine, lighting your back up with plenty of sensations.
The second tab applies pressure onto your perineum and disperses pleasure around your anus. So, get your Progasm on and have an orgasm like no other.
We all love waves of pleasure, but how about a whole tsunami? Well, if you want to get soaking wet, this Lelo Loki Wave Vibrating Prostate Massager is for you! Scream “Shell Yeah!” when the ripples of 10 different stimulations wave through your body.
With a large, curved head, it will massage your prostate just right, making you feel fin-tastic. Also, the vibrator is rechargeable, so you can ride the wave all night long and not get washed out! So next time your lover says they want to go to the beach, give them this instead, and they will want to float on you instead!
Look out for this double trouble duo. Get your freak on with double the cock and pleasure! With a prostate massager that connects via a cock ring around your penis, this toy is guaranteed to give you and your partner the biggest and best orgasms you have both ever had!
The cock ring slips over and sits at the base for the wearer, lightly squeezing your penis, giving you a bigger looking member. The Stimul8 Prostate Massager helps you last longer and gives you an even stronger ejaculation. On top of that, you get 48 combinations vibrating on your p-spot, giving you intense pleasure.
Open the bay doors because the missile is coming! Ribbed and ready, this silicone prostate massager will get your P-spot ready for lift-off. With three powerful, textured speeds and seven patterns, all operated by a button at the base, this will get your rocket ready to blast! Whether by yourself or with your lover, this toy is on a mission to delight.
With a ribbed, curved and tapered design, this prostate vibrator is 8 inches long and flexible so that you will have a whole other galaxy of pleasure!
We’re always told not to play with glass…but now, you can! If you are a professional prostate massager looking for something a bit firmer than your usual silicone material, this glass prostate massager is for you!
Great for temperature play, whether that’s warm or cold, this massager has got your back! This high-quality borosilicate glass gives a sleek and smooth feel and is the perfect treat for your sex life. It also has a sturdy loop for you to get a firm grip and pleasure yourself or your lover.
Get strapped in, and hold on for the rollercoaster ride of your life! This high roller prostate massager has a smooth silicone material with a shaped and curved shaft to give you comfort whilst you play. But what makes this an adrenaline-filling experience is this prostate massager has a rotating head controlled by remote control and can rub in all different directions to get your head spinning like the teacup ride!
With the option of hands-free or push button at the base control, you can have stimulating pleasure however you want it!
Do you want a stealthy bum tingle? Get your sneak on with this remote-controlled massager. It can be controlled from 15 metres away so that you can get your sneaky p-spot orgasm fun on with this prostate massager. With a perineum teaser, this massager will tickle with six different vibration functions, creating a world of pleasure that will make you lose your mind!
Not only that, but the shaft also has bidirectional rotating modes, and if that’s not enough, it also has 34 pleasure combos. With all that combined, you will be taken on an intense sexual awakening!
This devilishly dashing butt plug is more than just your usual plugging. With over ten different modes to put you into vibration heaven, you will experience stimulation from the wired remote control, either controlled by yourself or your lover.
With a pointed shaft to get it inside with ease, it also has a flared base, so you don’t hurt yourself with too much insertion. For added arousal, it has a beaded design to provide the exciting sensations you want.
We are happy to say you have been accepted into the School of Prestigious Prostate Pleasure Academy! Here is your very own prostate training kit, full of everything you will need as a new student to get started. You have:
- Prostate probe with a ring,
- Versatile egg-shaped vibrator to use with toys,
- Beaded prostate probe,
- A smaller beginners probe.
You have everything you need to pass your O levels and to reach your full Pro-tentional. So get practising, and we will see you at graduation with a huge smile on your face!
How to use a Prostate Massager
Prostate massagers are all primarily made from silicone, so you have to be sure to use a lot of lube to ensure that you are as comfortable as you can be. Without the correct lubrication, you can seriously hurt yourself or someone else.
But the general rule when it comes to massagers and sex toys is to make sure that they are kept clean and stored correctly, ready for subsequent use.
Prices vary depending on what you want and the quality of the products. For example, the Prostate Training Kit is $49.99, but if you look at the amount you get in the kit, you are getting a pretty good deal, considering some massagers alone can cost the same.
It’s just about knowing what you are looking for and how much you want to spend ideally. You are paying for longevity as these are reusable products if looked after properly.
Cleaning your sex toys is extremely important; making sure that you wash them before and after use is also critical, and the general rule is if it goes inside you, clean it. It’s common sense, really, but just don’t get lazy and make sure to put as much effort into cleaning your toys as you would yourself.
Cleaning products you could use include:
- Alcoholic wipes,
- Sanitising tablets,
- Warm freshwater.
Storing your sex toys is just as important as cleaning your sex toys. Many sex toys come in boxes that you can use for storage, but make sure it’s clean and put them not just in a box but also in a bag to keep any dust or debris off the toys themselves. Also, ensure that they are adequately dried; otherwise, the toys can start to deteriorate.
These prostate massagers can be for pros or newbies. As long as they are used carefully with lots of lube, you will achieve the true pleasure you are looking for.
As Donald says, “As a beginner to anal exploration, with plenty of lube and a bit of patience, I was surprised how easy it was to insert. Once in, you feel a little strange, but it soon changes to a nice feeling. The secret to the Aneros is to engage your pelvic floor and sphincter muscles.”
It’s all about patience, being careful with yourself, and seeing what works for you and what doesn’t.